I have been with my wife for 40 years, including 32 years of marriage. I have done the best I could as a boyfriend, a fiance, ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

DEAR WONDERING: The next time your co-worker starts in, summon up the backbone to tell her how hard your husband worked for ...

Dear Abby: My son’s DNA test says he’s part Jewish and he doesn’t know why I know I don’t have to explain myself, and I try to be polite. We both work, are debt-free and don’t bother anyone.

DEAR ABBY: A man I know has been married for 40 years. His wife gets mad at him for small things and stops talking to him for three to four months at a time. Related Articles.

DEAR ABBY: How do I go on in life without my husband? We were married 44 years and very much in love. It has been eight months since his passing. He had MS and had to live his last six years in a ...

DEAR ABBY: How do I go on in life without my husband?We were married 44 years and very much in love. It has been eight months since his passing. He had MS and had to live his last six years in a ...

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been taking care of my father-in-law for four years — getting his groceries, going to the bank, picking up prescriptions and doing different tasks.

DEAR ABBY: How do I tell my friend “Lila” that I think she’d be happier if she got divorced? To be clear, I don’t think her relationship is unsafe — it’s just unhappy. Things have been ...

DEAR ABBY: I have a woman friend I take out to lunch every once in a while. I often pay the check. Related Articles Dear Abby: My mom finally wants to get to know my kids. It’s too late. Dear ...