DEAR HOST: A nonresponse is a strong “hint” that someone is not receptive to a request or a suggestion. IF your brother raises the subject again, however, you will have to make it plain that you are not open to having anyone outside your immediate family stay in your home with you.

The man feels guilty about being absent as she grew up and doesn't recognize how judgmental and scheming she has become.

The unvarnished truth is that Amber is a snotty, judgmental woman who thinks she’s better than everyone. Because Julian wasn’t there while she was growing up, his guilt makes it especially hard for him to see her for who she is.

The unvarnished truth is that his daughter is a snotty, judgmental woman who thinks she’s better than everyone.

She is becoming a bone of contention in the relationship because I cannot stand how she uses guilt to manipulate her dad. He was always a caring father and a good provider, if not always there